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August 5, 2011
Aging and Wisdom
 The fashion mags would have us believe that women over age 30 are “past the peak of life.” Try telling that to Kathleen Vestal Logan – what does she say to women who feel they can’t live their best life after 50? “Hogwash!”
“The good life doesn’t happen by accident,” Logan, author of Second Blooming for Women, tells PINK. By taking care of ourselves through things like healthy eating habits, ensuring financial stability by properly planning for retirement and clarifying our Life/Work purpose, she says we can feel and be the best we’ve ever been, even after the big 5-0.
Women can rediscover themselves after 50 through “identifying the ‘weeds’ in life – common behaviors (like procrastination and perfectionism) that can are known to inhibit potential.”
Plus, “learning your personality type – the specific talents, strengths, and skills you possess – will give direction and focus to your choices,” says Logan, adding that assessments can help you do this in a matter of hours.
Having trouble embracing age? Experts say thinking about the fear of aging may bog you down with the negative aspects of it. WebMD lists great things about growing older, like the freedom to say, do and wear whatever you want (as long as it’s work-appropriate, of course).
For more positive-aging inspiration, Logan suggests books like Flourish and The Path in addition to Second Blooming.
Bonus PINK Link: Now that you’re ready to embrace aging, check out these tips on rediscovering your authentic self.
Minute Mentor: Women for Hire CEO Tory Johnson talks about how to ask for what you want.
By Chela Counts
"The individuals who ‘age successfully’ are those who
maintain a positive outlook on life." Dr. Donna Jacobi
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Comments
Aging and Wisdom
LOL - I had to laugh at the thought of being "past my peak" - Although I didn't know it at the time, my life had just gotten STARTED when I turned 30! Being past all the insecurities about appearance & self-doubt about my professional abilities due to proven successes, led me to start making choices leading to authentic happiness and (surprising!) financial success. 10yrs into my "second bloom" I eagerly anticipate what the coming decades hold!!
Life after 50
Great recommendations! As a woman who will turn 62 next month, I can say that life has never been better. I have wonderful men friends who teach me about business and support my endeavors. My intimate life with my husband has never been so fulfilling. I feel attractive and fit....love going to the gym, bowling, and dancing (we are taking lessons!) I'm launching a new company, writing my second book, painting again after 30 years, and mentoring two Toastmasters clubs.
But this is after managing tragedy, trauma, and many life crises. We can find wisdom and meaning and new ways to connect deeper with others after navigating life's painful times. I encourage women to seek breakthroughs, young mentors as well as mature ones, and to continue to define, redefine, and reinvent oneself.
Grandma Moses generated after 3600 canvasses after the age of 65. Who says we are finished at 60?
Ana Tampanna www.theconnectingforce.com
Freedom
I'm only 38 and I've been saying, doing, and wearing whatever I want since I was born. As long as it doesn't hurt anyone, why wouldn't I? Saying that I have to wait until I'm older to experience freedom and independence is ridiculous.
Emme